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I have very easy idea about it. There are many ways which makes you confident. By my suggestions for you to make or build confidence is respect to my own experience. I am not a great, successful or like someone thinks about it to get motivated from but i can explain this or suggest this because I had a great experiences related of this topic which we call "how to build confidence?"
First let me tell you i'm not having that much perfect knowledge about speaking english in best manner but i can speak at such platform without loosing my confidence on it. And i do believe i cant even dare to write two sentences. But i do write. And atleast i try. And many time i succeed in it. So this is my confidence that making me to realise that i can say something or express something for someone who need or even myself too. Actually what i do or even dont, indirectly making or loosing my confidence.
To be more Confident isnt just about how you look, or what education you are pursuing ,or how poor or rich you are.this dont matter at all. Confidence is all about to represnt your own identity in front your audience or anywhere where you do your work. It can be a Student, Employee, Unemployee, Sportsman, Struggler Etc. All you need is just a confidence for what you wanted to be. So if you are best or atleast involved what you are doing at your Present than i dont think that you need someone to tell about this. Because you already know that you can do it.
I must admit some of my own example to make you more comfortable about the honesty i'm making in this topic. So that i can say about myself too. I am studying M.Sc. at Goverment Institute in a final year at Aurangabaad. And even some years back i didn't think so far that i could appear to do such course in my life which is going to take me somewhere where i suppose to be. So i am very happy with my present and why? because i'm doing making myself the best at this level of my life. I didnt know about what is Geology before my graduation and then i come to know when i got admission in my PG. After entrance, I was little upset and almost underconfident. but the positivity which make someone to do something in their life. If you want to be a Confident about yourself ,First you should be positive towords your life. What you do, Dont be the best but atleast be confident on what you just trying do.
I never know that i could dance on front of 1000 of people at my college gathering but the fact that i love myself which took me at the stage and yes i got unexpected responce that i wasn't thinking .
So its all about confidence. But for that you have to love yourself first which i admitted already and if you do then believe the success in life is yours.
Another example of mine is That some days ago many of my friends told me to host our freshers party and they were more confident on me than me. Sometimes it happens ,like when we consider ourself to do nothing even we are capable to do that particular thing. We cant. Any there is some one who always motivate you for that thing,And that is your Surrounding . The circle of people you got into. Like your friends etc. This thing is also important.
So conclusion is like that, if you want your confidence everytime charged or full,So what you need to do is you have to be very positive about your yourself. The surrounding, the involvement you make, how passionately you build youself and last how high are your dreams.
Sorry for my bad english. Hope you understand what i exactly want to express.
Have a confident life ahead.
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